Jameel Gordon 11/19/24 Jameel Gordon 11/19/24

Success Sucks!

Success is a tricky concept. It’s simple, yet elusive. I have this uncanny ability to accomplish my goals and even more so, to manifest my thoughts and imagination into reality.

However, success often doesn’t happen within the timeframe I envision. Oddly, it happens sooner than I can imagine for various reasons. Sometimes, I overestimate the ease of a task or the willingness of others to collaborate or provide the necessary resources for my success.

Additionally, sharing my vision or idea with others can lead to unexpected outcomes. They may help me, introduce me to someone who can assist, or even take my vision and turn it into reality. I used to be sensitive to the latter, but now I recognize it as another powerful tool for success.

Regardless of the path to success, one thing I’ve consistently observed is that it’s a challenging and often unsatisfying journey.

This elusive concept of success is particularly relevant to the projects, ideas, and endeavors I pursue. Success often creeps up on me, much like grief, when I realize I’ve achieved something. Each time this happens, I pause, reflect, appreciate, and become fully present in the moment. The question that then often arises is, “Now what?” Success is unsatisfying because it rarely aligns with our preconceived notions or expectations.

One remedy I’ve found is to dream big, challenge myself, and push the boundaries of possibility to an extent that I now anticipate results beyond my wildest imagination. This mindset quickly takes me through these moments of success because, as I’ve learned, success is often a far cry from what we envision.

I understand that this perspective may come from a place of privilege, as I’ve experienced the benefits of success firsthand. However, I believe it’s important to acknowledge that success can be a challenging and unsatisfying journey.

In conclusion, success may not always be what we expect, but it’s worth pursuing. By dreaming big, challenging ourselves, and embracing the unexpected, we can increase our chances of success and find greater fulfillment in our lives.

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Jameel Gordon 11/18/24 Jameel Gordon 11/18/24

Be What You Love

I believe we’re all familiar with the phrase “Do what you love.” While some may agree with it, others might disagree. Some argue that success often requires doing things we don’t enjoy, especially when pursuing elusive goals like being “successful”.

However, I believe it’s more important to not only do what we love but also to be what we love. When we align our passions with our actions, we find greater joy and fulfillment. By doing what we love and being who we love, we may even become the qualities we seek in others. It’s a mistake to pursue something that doesn’t align with our true selves, that isn’t what we aren’t.

Do what you love and be what you love. Do both and be both.

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Jameel Gordon 11/5/24 Jameel Gordon 11/5/24

Unlearn to Move Forward

As I embark on a monumental task, I am reminded of the vast amount of knowledge I need to acquire and unlearn. Our histories, sciences, and collective knowledge are plagued by inaccuracies stemming from poor understanding and lack of context. In the age of artificial intelligence, profound discoveries will necessitate a willingness to abandon our preconceived notions and beliefs to adapt and effect meaningful changes based on these revelations. Moreover, significant changes will require us to detach ourselves from our economic system to make a genuine impact on human lives and the natural environment.

For various reasons, I have cultivated the habit of repeatedly reminding myself that we, as a society, have created everything we have. It’s a sobering realization that much of what surrounds us, what we find in our books, fiction, and even our textbooks, is simply absolute nonsense. I am eager to dedicate considerable time to undoing the work of others, not for the purpose of shaming or seeking personal ego gratification, but as a collective endeavor to propel humanity forward, shedding the collective bullshit that hinders our progress.

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Jameel Gordon 11/4/24 Jameel Gordon 11/4/24

Life, Rhythm, and the Joy of Writing Again

I haven’t prioritized these blogs over the past few months because I’ve had other priorities, like moving and settling into a comfortable rhythm that supports creativity and amazing work. This post is part of my journey back into the rhythm of content creation—of writing. Writing is what I do best.

I’m looking forward to sharing more with you over the coming days, weeks, and months, and hopefully continuing consistently throughout the year. Cheers!

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Jameel Gordon 7/18/24 Jameel Gordon 7/18/24

Just Do It: My Motto

I often hear people sharing their feelings, and if those feelings are negative, it's usually because they either did something they didn't want to do, didn't do something they wanted to do, or did something but not the way they wanted to. I'm very in tune with others and their feelings and how they are often linked to one of these scenarios. In my own life, I not only tell myself but also make myself just do it. Do what you want to do, because if you don't, it will leave you drained and with a sense of failure. It will leave you with a feeling that isn't real—you're just making yourself feel that way because you didn't do what you were supposed to. So, just get things done. Just do it.

I don't profess to have secrets, but here are my keys to getting things done. First, don't think about things twice. I think for a living, and my rule of thumb is not to overthink. I consider something once, and then I'm done. It's either I'm going to do it, or I'm not. Chances are, if I'm thinking about something, I'm thinking about how I'm going to do it. When I'm done thinking about it, I just do it. If I have to think twice about it, I might as well not do it and move on to the next thing that needs to be done. Overthinking only drains me and leaves me with a sense of failure or another negative feeling I don't want such as regret, frustration, or disappointment.

Secondly, it's crucial to know what you're not going to do. Take some time to think about your standards, preferences, boundaries, wants, and needs, and don't think about them twice. Note them and live according to them. Your preferences are your preferences for a reason. Don't compromise your boundaries, negotiate for what you want, and make sure your needs are met. Just do it. Taking action and prioritizing your wants and needs can contribute to a positive emotional state.

Finally, and this is a major key, we all make everything up. We literally made everything up. If something didn't come from a seed or a complex protein, some human or group of humans made it up. Therefore, you can just do it. Just do the damn thing and stop talking yourself out of it. There's a strong connection between our actions and feelings. Not doing what we want or doing something poorly can lead to negative emotions. However, negative emotions can also come from external factors. Taking action and prioritizing what matters to us can be a powerful way to feel good. Thank me later. Cheers! 🥂

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Jameel Gordon 7/2/24 Jameel Gordon 7/2/24

Prioritizing Joy

It's essential to know what brings you joy. What is joyful in your life? Joy is a deep feeling of happiness and contentment. Consider your experiences—whether daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, or momentarily—are they joyful? Think about the relationships in your life: are they joyful? Reflect on your work and your everyday living—your lifestyle—does it provide you with a sense of purpose and accomplishment? Is it joyful? Joy, that deep feeling of happiness and contentment, matters. Unlike fleeting moments of pleasure, joy is more enduring and can persist even in challenging times. It encompasses a sense of well-being and fulfillment that goes beyond temporary satisfaction.

Many naysayers will argue that not everything in life is meant to be joyful, but I disagree. I don’t subscribe to the “no gain without pain” mantra. Perhaps it's applicable at the gym, but it doesn’t have to be so in life. I’ve been chatting with a few runners lately, and although I don’t particularly like running, I have a desire to do it. They all say the same thing: “No one likes running when they’re running.” Then why do it? Perhaps it's the sense of accomplishment, the results, or achieving your goals that brings joy. If not, why do it? I choose exercise practices that bring me joy while I’m doing them, such as yoga, swimming, brisk walks, and hiking.

Many people are dissatisfied with the way the world works, yet every day, they wake up and carry on, participating in aspects of life that they disagree with—things that don't bring them joy, because they complain about it. Perhaps complaining brings them joy. Who knows? What I am suggesting is that we opt out of the things that don’t bring us joy. Don’t do them, don’t be around them, and say no to the "no thank you" portion. I will not choose to appease at the sacrifice of my joy. Personally, I prioritize my joy, if for no other reason than that we literally make everything up. Look around you—wherever you are in this world—and if it did not come from a seed or a complex protein, we literally made it all up, including the practices and shared values that go along with them. Prioritize your joy and make your world a better place. Then, make the world a better place—a place that’s more joyful.

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Jameel Gordon 7/1/24 Jameel Gordon 7/1/24

Mastering Focus + Avoid Distractions

As I begin another week with minimal intrusions on my calendar, I reflect on how I've spent the past year mastering the art of saying no and remaining laser-focused on the people and things that matter in my life and work. I've also spent considerable time shaping and molding the scope of my future work. Tackling the climate crisis by pioneering solutions at the intersection of AI, sustainability, and public policy to shape a greener future is not an easy task. The challenge itself is daunting, let alone the numerous difficulties that accompany it. With this in mind, and as an entrepreneur taking on this challenge, saying no is helpful but insufficient. When working at this scale, we can often get in our own way. Therefore, as I prepare for the next couple of sprints, it's crucial that I avoid distractions.

A significant part of this strategy is the excellent use of my calendar and to-do list, which I am known for frequently revising. I often add numerous tasks to my to-do list and, after a month or two or three, I delete them if they remain undone and prove to be non-essential. Even tasks that seemed urgent at the time, once they sit on the list and go undone without any adverse effects, save me time and are eventually deleted, allowing me to start fresh with a new list. Consequently, I've become adept at avoiding distractions in my life, whether from people, doom scrolling, pointless meetings, or other time-wasting activities. This has enhanced my time management skills, enabling me to be as productive as possible within the least amount of time, thus allowing me to achieve my goals without burning out.

I am writing to remind my fellow entrepreneurs to stay focused and not let distractions steal our joy. Our joy lies in our work because, for those of us anchored in our passions, our life and work are intertwined. Let’s avoid distractions, my friend.

Personally, I’ve merged and melded several time management strategies, which I continue to tweak and develop. They've been working great for me, and perhaps you may find them useful too. Learn, study, apply, and integrate these structures and disciplines into your life bit by bit, and let me know how they work for you. Until soon, ILY!

**Pomodoro Technique**: This method involves working in short, focused bursts (usually 25 minutes) followed by a short break. It’s designed to enhance focus and prevent burnout.

**Eisenhower Matrix**: This strategy helps prioritize tasks by urgency and importance, dividing them into four categories: urgent and important, important but not urgent, urgent but not important, and neither.

**Time Blocking**: This involves scheduling your day into blocks of time, each dedicated to specific tasks or activities. It ensures that you allocate enough time for important tasks and limit distractions.

**Getting Things Done (GTD)**: Developed by David Allen, this method focuses on capturing all your tasks, organizing them into actionable steps, and regularly reviewing your progress.

**Eat That Frog**: Popularized by Brian Tracy, this technique suggests starting your day with the most challenging task (the “frog”) to boost productivity and avoid procrastination.

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Jameel Gordon 6/10/24 Jameel Gordon 6/10/24

No

I recognize the power of "no". It liberates me from uncomfortable situations I wish to avoid. "No" enables me to maintain focus on the people and things that truly matter to me, those that are my priority.

Even with those who hold significance in my life, I frequently wield the power of "no". Lately, my children have been fixated on passwords, constantly requesting access to various accounts. My response remains consistent: "No." Their disappointment is evident, yet I can't help but think that they fail to realize that "no" serves as my true passcode. Yes, I do explain the "why" behind my "no" to my children. This helps them understand the concept of privacy and responsible online behavior. But, "No." I value the potency of this simple two-letter word, a barrier that shields me from countless unwanted intrusions.

I've also cultivated the practice of saying "no" to myself. While declining others is, in a sense, declining oneself, I take it further. I regularly reject my own impulses. I consider myself to be exceptionally creative, often generating more ideas than the average person. Consequently, I frequently deny myself. This aspect of my character is why I find solace in maintaining websites and reviewing them regularly. If an idea doesn't fit within the framework of my sites or social channels, the answer is likely "no". My workload is already extensive, spanning a lifetime, so "no", I don't have time for additional pursuits.

Surprisingly, I hold deep respect and appreciation for the power of "no". As someone who frequently makes requests, I am accustomed to receiving rejections, which don't faze me in the slightest. Years of experience in sales have fortified me against the impact of "no". In fact, I often persist and find that very few individuals remain steadfast in their refusals. Yes, I do use my rational mind and I am respectful of others' boundaries. Recognizing genuine "no" and not pushing boundaries is necessary and crucial. Armed with this knowledge, I am committed to consistently exercising my own "no's", ensuring that my life remains focused, clear, and free.

Join me in saying it aloud: "No".

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